In today’s world, there’s no denying that money is important.
From our basic needs like food and shelter to luxuries like collections and entertainment, almost everything requires money.
Money has been integrated so much with our lives that some even argues money can even buy happiness. Some even set earning as much money as possible to be their life’s goal.
Do money really buy happiness?
In my opinion, money doesn’t buy happiness. If you need money to be happy, you don’t really know how to live your live happily. Oftentimes, just by enjoying life’s simple pleasures like sipping an afternoon tea with loves one at a quiet place can makes us happy and content.
To me, money is a tool. A tool that suppose to do mainly 3 things, and 3 things only:
1)Money is suppose to give you comfort.
It helps you to acquire things that makes your life more easier. It helps you to live a comfortable house for you and your family. Allows you to eat nice, delicious food. Allows you to provide good education for your kids.
2)Money is suppose to help you solve problems.
Money won’t solve all your problem but it will definitely solves most of them. It allows you to don’t have to constantly worry about things that requires money. Having transportation problem? Buy a car. Fallen ill and need medical treatment? Done.
Granted, not all problems can be solved but money is a great tool to solve certain problems.
3)Money is suppose to be an amplifier
Sure you don’t need money to help others. You can volunteer, provide physical labor as such but there is only so much you can do on your own. To do things on a larger scale, you need money. You can donate more to charity to help more people. You can organize and hire more people to help people. Money amplifies your reach. If you’re a jerk, money will make you be a bigger jerk. If you’re a kind and caring person, money helps you to be more kind and caring.
So, money is a tool. It depends on you to make the most out of it.
But how much is enough? Everyone have different needs that requires different amount of money. A lot of people tend to give up life’s simple pleasure in pursuit of money. A great story demonstrates this:
One day a fisherman was lying on a beautiful beach, with his fishing pole propped up in the sand and his solitary line cast out into the sparkling blue surf. He was enjoying the warmth of the afternoon sun and the prospect of catching a fish.
About that time, a businessman came walking down the beach trying to relieve some of the stress of his workday. He noticed the fisherman sitting on the beach and decided to find out why this fisherman was fishing instead of working harder to make a living for himself and his family. “You aren’t going to catch many fish that way,” said the businessman. “You should be working rather than lying on the beach!”
The fisherman looked up at the businessman, smiled and replied, “And what will my reward be?”
“Well, you can get bigger nets and catch more fish!” was the businessman’s answer.
“And then what will my reward be?” asked the fisherman, still smiling.
The businessman replied, “You will make money and you’ll be able to buy a boat, which will then result in larger catches of fish!”
“And then what will my reward be?” asked the fisherman again.
The businessman was beginning to get a little irritated with the fisherman’s questions. “You can buy a bigger boat, and hire some people to work for you!” he said.
“And then what will my reward be?” repeated the fisherman.
The businessman was getting angry. “Don’t you understand? You can build up a fleet of fishing boats, sail all over the world, and let all your employees catch fish for you!”
Once again the fisherman asked, “And then what will my reward be?”
The businessman was red with rage and shouted at the fisherman, “Don’t you understand that you can become so rich that you will never have to work for your living again! You can spend all the rest of your days sitting on this beach, looking at the sunset. You won’t have a care in the world!”
The fisherman, still smiling, looked up and said, “And what do you think I’m doing right now?”
When we pursuit money, we need to set our priorities and goals straight. Most people can live comfortably without much money. Think: “Am I earning this much to be happy? Or am I doing for other purposes?”
To me, the purpose of me wanting to be financially successful and have abundance wealth not because it will make me happy, but because it helps me do what I truly want: To help others to stop worrying financially and start living happily. In order to do this, I have to be in a position to help. Safety protocol 101: ‘Save yourself before helping others’. Money helps amplify my reach to help more people.
As such, I will continue to pursuit money without sacrificing happiness as happiness comes from everywhere. You just have to recognize the decision to experience happiness has been right in front of us all along.